When you suggest to someone larger, okay, let's just say it OBESE that they have diabetes, you're an asshole. When you suggest that someone should have surgery to lose weight, yup, you are an asshole. How would you like it if I told you to eat a cake? You need some meat on those bones, or here's a sandwich. You wouldn't like it.
Just because a person is overweight doesn't mean they lack confidence or happiness. Just because you are skinny doesn't make you confident, nor does it make you happy. If you start out unhappy and unconfident, chances are good; you still are unhappy and lack confidence.
Stop living up to everyone else's standards; you are GOOD ENOUGH!! Making weight the motivating factor in your self-worth does not equal loving yourself.
No, I am not suggesting anyone go out and gain weight. Your happiness should not be measured by your weight; learn to love yourself!!! Be with people who love you and want to celebrate you no matter your size. 
We are all so different, and by learning that it is okay, you will learn to appreciate yourself and love yourself. I know I do!
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